Everything’s a phase

Today we drove to see my friend who had her baby 3 weeks after me. Today I was reminded (and shown) that everything really is just a phase. A few months back, I drove to see this same friend and had to pull into a garden centre as my little boy was very unhappy. I sat and cried for about an hour and ended up going home, without seeing my friend and her little boy. Well today I drove past that same garden centre and had a little ‘yay us’ moment. This time, I made it the whole way. We didn’t have to stop - in fact he slept most of the way! We had such a lovely day. Did my little boy cry in the car on the way home? Yes he did. But this time I was more prepared for it - I sing him terribly made-up songs daily, and so I sang those same songs in the car and the crying stopped. My voice was a little hoarse by the time I got home, but we got home without needing to stop. 

When you’re in the thick of it, it can be really hard to see, and hear, that everything is just a phase. Yes some phases are longer than others, but you will come out the other side one day and be able to have that ‘yay us’ moment too. 

E x 



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